#1 LIFE HACK for Motivation & Happiness | A Gary Vaynerchuk Original

– Are you scared to do it because your mothers won’t like it? – No, my mothers actually aid me– – Okay, so what areyou afraid of, miscarrying? – Not miscarrying … but … Still being at the same place, when your best friend are at the next degree. – Huge mistake. You don’t want the samethings your friends miss. So why the fuck do youcare what they have? The biggest reasonablenes beings are hapless right now, is’ cause they valuesomebody else’s opinion more than they quality their own. Have the conversation with the person that’s holding you back. The rationale most people whoare listening right now are not make that thing, is they’re worried aboutthe opinion of somebody.( resonating) I am so devastated that you actually let your grandma’s point of view, your momma, your dad, yousister, your aunt … You still cause somebody else dictate based on their opinion. Every action you do, and it’s your life .( clock clicking) The intellect I’m super fortunate, is nobody can tell me nothin ‘. My wife, mommy, and daughter, could walk into my room right now, tell me I’m a piece of drivel, and I would be 100% un-phased. That is some gangster feelings arrangement. If you’re not feelin’it, find new friends. I’m being dead serious about this.This one is real big for me. The only direction I’ve seen , now that I’m older, thatyou can build confidence, is if you surround yourself with people who are idealistic. Start trimming your friend group, and start adding to your friend group, predicated, on what you wanna be. Like, it’s unbelievablewhat happened to me when I got into the Silicon Valley world, and started intersect like, Mark Zuckerberg, and like, Ed Williams and– like, Travis– like, it changed my life.Everybody in this room, needs to cut out as much of the noise, and meter of beings that are negative, and deplete as much time withpeople that are positive. The people you spend time with are the ones that mandate your mindset. – Yeah. – You could limit your time with your mama. You could restraint your timewith your best friend. You could tell your lover, or husband to go fuck themselves. – Yeah. – You fuckin’ roll up with your father, your mommy, your sister, and say fuck off, I’m out, because you’re a fuckin’ viru, and I’ll see you in six years old, if you figure out why the fuck I left.You’re consenting to bein that relationship. If you feel motivatedby this conversation, or you’re intrigued by it, add one new winner friend. Like, you know what I make? Add one new winner friend, and cut one loser friend. – I feel like even when I contribute it away, and I don’t speak to them, the chattering of them– – That means you– That means you value their opinion. – Yeah. – I don’t. – Yup. – Please, make this bethe video that drills through your pate, thatyour life is predicated on when you get real quiet, and you can’t hear anotherfuckin’ person’s two cents that has nothing to do with you, and everything to do withwhere they are in life.Are you really gonna give those eight or ninepeople dictate their own lives?’ Cause you are so fearfulof judgment from others that at the end of the day when you’re 87, you will not give a shit about ..

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