How many of you decided not to dosomething because it was hard? Raise your hands please. Like there was no excuse whatsoever for not getting at what it isthat you should be doing. We’re just so interestedin blaming everybody else and condones because we don’t want totake on responsibility. So whenever something hurts you there are 2 alternatives You was in a position become wounded, or you can become wise. This is the choice As Einstein said, “Those that have never disappointed have never tried” The reason most peopledon’t take action is simple it’s fear. Fear of outage, dread of success. Perfection equals paralysis In my experience, things hardly ever proceed perfectly even though they are you want them to stuff goes wrong, that’s just lifetime. When everything seemsto be going against you remember that the airplanetakes off against the wind not with it. And once you learnby precipitating on your face, that’s how you learn.You learn by tryingto create a light bulb. Over … and over … and over again. If at first, you disappoint then try, try again When a child’s learning howto walk, it falls down 50 ages it never stops thinking to itself … “This isn’t for me” We all disappoint. It’s okay. What is not okay is … that when you disappoint, “youre staying” down. It only took 1 mistaketo turn your totality life-time inside out. It simply makes 1 good experiment to see what you were doing wrong. Because failure is just testing. It’s blood hard to be a high performance being. Difficulties are always an indicator that you are making progress. So many of you in there is comfortable and you think simply because you’recomfortable you’re being successful. I don’t ever feel like I losebecause I won’t give up. Even if I lose, I’ll do it again.The leverage is in beingaccountable for everything. The leverage is disclosing your defects. We either acquire or we learn. You never look at thatas a downfall or a loss You look at it asan opportunity to learn. There’s nothing wrong with compiling mistakes and so “whats being” I learn from this? Now, you’re leveragingthis trouble to grow. Don’t fling the towel in so fast. Many beings give up on the 1 yard word. Whether you’re, you are well aware, 9, 12, 16, 21, 22, 24 if you disappoint, it doesn’t matter. Your failure is irrelevant. There’s not one of you that weren’tdestined to become successful you have dreams and “youve had” destinations. And I promise you , nobody can stop you.I don’t think confidence is somethingthat you were born with it’s a skills and abilities. And I had no confidence. So confidence is somethingI schooled myself over the years. I started becoming okay with who I am. I became the best version of me. And then, I kind of said, I’m okay.You know, I’m alright. Even if someone elsethinks this, I’m okay. And everyone can do that. Beings only don’t realize it. So, it obliged me understand that confidence absolutely is the keyto getting ahead in living. If you believe in yourself, the world will believe in you. Because perception is reality. As soon as I started doingeverything that I enjoy there was a surge of superpower, a flood of trust, I wasn’t insecure anymore. Because the emotion that had the most dominancein my thought process was actually being paid attention to. I … I’m really sick of being insecure. I accept I’m enoughand I believe that everything I have that I need for life to makeall my dreams come true I know it’s already inside of me.It’s who you areand being comfy with who you are that influences other people to say, “Oh, Okay. Maybe I could do that.” You can’t wait for destiny. No one can do that, you can’t be like, “Oh! Destiny’s going toknock at my doorway one day.” No, it won’t. You have to be able torecognize opportunities because there’ll be a lot ofthem that come into your life. And once you’ve recognized job opportunities, you have to seize the day and wield viciou hard-handed because there’ll be 25 otherpeople who’ll want to do it. If outage was not on the table do you realize that 87% of parties permit the fear of failure to outweigh their desire to succeed. Failure is required. Success is optional. Successful parties fail a good deal. They fail a whole lot morethan they succeed.I went all in. I compiled my move beforeI was ready, I made increased risk. It didn’t pay off the practice I wanted it to but I learned. You don’t lose if you learn. Failure is destined to happen. At some part, you will fail why? Because you’re not good at everything. You can learn as much, if not more … from your loss, your non-starts, your pauses as you are eligible to from your successes. You’ve got a lot going for you, a lot more than you think. If you’re framing your life as a failure and framing their own lives as a collapse you will continue to see simply failure in your life. It’s up to you how you bounce back from those collapses. I’ve seen a lot ofincredible people stopped … by an unwillingness to let go ofa past that doesn’t help them.No withdraw No resignation You know they say life is9 0% of what happens and the other 10% is how you respond to it. It’s possible. I can do this.I can make this happen. No difficulty how bad it is or how bad it gets I’m going to make it. I say it’s time for youto turn your life around. I say it’s time for you to get backup because man exactly slapped you down. I say it’s time for you to swimbecause you’re about to drown.Congratulations. You’ve endured 100% of the most difficult minutes of your life. If in that moment, regardlessof your worldly success, you feel good about who “youre ever”. You feeling all right about what you’ve done and how you’ve touchedother people’s lives. You feel good about what you’restriving for and trying to accomplish. You feeling all right that inthe times when it get hard it didn’t matter to youyou propagandized through That affairs. So, in other words your likelihood of being successful is determined by how well you canbounce back from those failures.He was homeless for 3 weeks. Living in a New Jersey Bus Station. He likewise was so broke at one point, that when he was writing the movie “Rocky” his electricity was turn out and he was forced tosell his hound for 25 bucks merely to get the flares turned away on. Then, later on he wasrejected by talent scouts over 1500 ages. Probably, most famousfor his work in “Rocky”. Sylvester Stallone She was once told that she didn’thave the face for video. “Your only shot to make itin this TV industry was to be behind the camera, not in front of it.” Forbes mentioned that in 2004, she gave apart 276 automobiles to membership of her audience. She ultimately paved the nature for many of ourother beloved talk-show legions. Now, she has her own network.A figure that brings smilesto people all regions of the world. He established theme parks. With the stature of being”The Happiest Place on Earth”. His ballparks are created withcreativity and ingenuity from the very secondyou enter into their gates. Long before he became known asthe inventor of this magical place, he was fired from the newspaperthat he formerly made at. They fired him because his bosssaid, he scarcity imagination.Walt Disney An American Film-maker. He is considered one ofthe Founding Pioneers of the brand-new Hollywood Era. And one of the most popularDirectors and Producers in Film history. He placed “Jurassic Park”. It made almost 939 billion dollars. But what you might not know, is that he got rejectedfrom movie academy 3 times. The movie school that rebuffed him last-minute offered him an Honorary Degree and hired him to becomeTrustee of the School. Steven Spielberg He is an actor, a comedian, impressionist, Screenwriter, a musician, producer, and even a painter.But growing up was a different story. He was most poor, even at persons under the age of 15, he worked as a porter to help his family pay the monies. And to hear his first performanceat a humor golf-club, he was booed off stage. Now you can’t go anywhere in the worldwithout someone knowing precisely who Jim Carrey is. Downfall is not a bad thing it is a stepping stone toyour next elevation of greatness. Default promotes youropportunity for success. It is a pre-requisite for success How bad do you want to succeed? The better question is how much are you willing to fail? Never let yourself be the main victims. If I could go back in time, and have a conversationwith my 8 to 10 year age-old soul, that would be the letter I would contribute. Because when you thinkabout it, you’re a kid things don’t go your road, what do you do? You cry, you complain, you throw a fit, you require your parentsto feel sorry for you, you feel sorry for yourself. It’s how, how you dealwith things at that senility. And then you grow up but you don’t inevitably shed that habit, that mentality.And it becomes obvious, right? I want, you can talkto someone for 30 seconds and you know right away if they have that prey mentality, the world falling down, they’re tired, they have so much to do, they’re so busy, X-Y-Z. Look, having that mindset, does 2 things for you. One, it induces you comeacross helpless and weak. And no one wants to come across that mode. Two, it should not get youto where you’re going, it does not change the situation. Right? Now is the reality. There is alwaysa way to get what you want.There is always a wayto position yourself, to move away from what you don’t want. You can quite literally becomewhat you want to become but you cannot look at life like it’s this problem, like it’s against you. The ball is in your field. You know, it wasn’t thatlong ago, 2 – three years ago, that I was not the happiestguy in the world. Right? Did not like what I was doing, should not like how I was devoting my duration, was not energized, was not passionate about very much. But the time camewhere I didn’t want to live like that. I had a conversation with myself, I stopped being the main victims, I stopped complaining, and I queried myself, “dude, what do you want? What is your purpose? What is your goal? Who do you want to become? ” And I literally offset the decisionand walked away a different person.And the things around mechanged, my life converted because I made a decisionto never be the main victims again, to get what I want. I became the author of my own tale. And you recognise just how simple it isto transform your statu. Not easy, right? And it takes time. But there’s always a wayto do from spot A to moment B. And this separates the worldinto 2 various kinds of beings. Beings who look at how things are, who accept reality as truth, who complain. And people who look at what can be, who get the most out of any place, look at life as if it’s clay to be molded, to be shaped. It seems funny to meknowing what I do now that I went through any of my lifelike a hamster on a rotation that I talked to people everydaywho didn’t invigorate me that I didn’t want to be around, that I did thingsI wasn’t passionate about.That is lunacy. Because if you don’t like something, but you do nothing to change it, what’s left for you to do? Complain, squeak, stay where you are, that’s it. See, one of the reasonsI reference sportings so much is because they bringthis attitude on you. That when things become difficult, when things become challenging your job, your one jobis to find a way to figure it out.And I always did, and I took that and I brought itto everything else I do. And now it is eye opening to see people achievingsuccess, financial free, these things everyone wants. And know that the differencebetween them and everyone else is that they felt like they deserved it. A bunch of the time theyweren’t smarter, stronger they weren’t more gifted starting out but they moved toward what the fuck is craved. They didn’t cry or groanabout their own problems, they didn’t look for sympathy. Those at the top ofthe mountain are not casualties. They will never cause themselves be victims. It’s about the other side, the opportunity. Getting from where you are to what you want. The- the first step is belief, right? People think that beliefcomes once you’ve done it. You won’t even make the first step if you don’t believeyou can reach it.So, we contribute with belief as a species. So, you have to finda way to believe in it to move so your mummy is giving youan awesome challenge. Can you believe in the faceof her indecision, right? And to me, when people doubt me, it’s a gift. I adore thatbecause I believe in beauty and madnes and you need both. I need parties to desire me, I need to want beautiful thingsfor myself and for others, I want to create something stunning, I want to help a lot of people.I too want to prove a lot of beings wrong who don’t think that I can do this. I just wanted to suppress the antagonists that want to see me neglect, that want to do anythingthey can to ensure that I fail. I devote 80% of my era here, and 20% of my duration here. And the mockery is as Darth Vader will tell you there’s power on the dark side. And formerly you learn to balance those then you really get something interesting. And here’s another way to say it You have to know when to love yourself, and know when to dislike yourself. I think it’s 80/20 again. You want to deplete 80% of the time loving youand being proud of who you are no matter where you are , no matter what part ofyour outing you’re in. Really loving that you’reshowing up, that you’re playing, maybe you’re not yet satisfiedwith the level you’re playing at.But no worries, like you’re there, you’re doing it, you’re presentation up. And then 20% of the time beingwildly disappointed by yourself, being horrified by the factthat you were so lazy and so afraid of being coldthat you wouldn’t get out of bed. Like that’s terrifyingand that is not acceptable That’s not a person that you’reprepared to continue to be and that you time find thatso disgusting in yourself that you’re going to makean immediate modify. And if you don’t do that, you’ll never stretch. You’ll spend all your timeover here, you’ll be quelled. Talk about being soothed by the dreammerely having the dream. I want to do good things for parties – have you heard a lot of people say that? – yeah Yeah, people say that all day “I want to do great thingsI want to help the world.” In what channel? Like they don’t get specific, so they mollified by the dream. So, you’ve got this person who isreally not living up to their potential being soothed by the vision of whatthey can do and who they could become but they never to your earlier point, they never find the path to execution.So, I find, withoutkicking myself in the backside without being deeplydissatisfied with myself 20% of the time because if it’s more than 20% ofthe time you begin to erode yourself and it gets highly astringent. You’ll chip away at your ownself-esteem and that’s a total consume. But you do have to bewilling to kick your butt See, I recognized earlier today in living that life isn’t just about government decisions that we establish. You know what I’m saying? If you don’t become whoyou’re supposed to become people going to die.That’s deep.Now really thought about it. If you don’t become whoyou’re supposed to become, like beings going to hurt. Like if I don’t hitthe reset button in live, Who knows where Brianwould be right now? Who knows where the team would be? Like There’s something inside you. And so, this is why we do what we do. Because I don’t know if Like, all y’all are probablyfeeling the presentation but how many of you are reallygoing to apply what we gave you? It could be 10%, it could be 40%, I don’t know. But what took place todaycould alter your life forever because you’ve got a brain. So when you find yourself down and out, you go think about man, If Jill was in her auto, homelessand pregnant and she got through it That girl has sang in Africa and beento Ecuador and all over the globe.If she could do it, you know now you could do it. And some of you got somehomeboys you connected with but you know they aren’t really livinghow you are supposed to be living and they extend you down the wrongway, you know from Brian’s story. Yo, if I remove myself from it, if I plug in with positive parties I can make it. Listen, I want for youwhat we’re experiencing. One of my homeboys was like, “J, you gotta take it easy. You want everybody toexperience a great life like you”. I’m like “bro, why not? I’m trying to earn. I want you to win.” I went through too much tendernes. When Tony was sharingwhat she was sharing Jill, both of them get dealt with people takingadvantage of them when they were little. Listen to me husband. I know you’re suffering. I know you’re hurting onthe inside, you wonder why? Like why this got to happen to me? Why I gotta suffer this? Why this person had totake advantage of me? I promise you, you are turning into a warrior.Because the stuff thatyou’re going through, the stuff that you have to experience, What don’t kill you realise you stronger. If you look at the catthat goes to the gym and he’s lifting weightsand he’s pumping iron. If you ask homeboy “Hey bro, howdid you get so large-hearted? ” They will tell you. “It took a whole lot of age and I hadto go through a whole lot of pain.” And life is going to grow you.Listen to me right now, life is going to grow you. It is not going to be easy, it is going to be distressing, it is going to be frustrating. You’re going to molted some tears, you’re probably going to spill some blood. It’s going to hurtbut you’ve gotta deter pushing. You know when there’snothing left to do but to fight with everything you’ve got to get back up there’s a word for it Resilience. And that oath comesdown to such a simple test. Not much involved. But in the moments that matter most it’s everything. You and a reflect looking into your own gazes and realizingthere’s nowhere else to go but up, and being ready for what that makes. It’s a single decision. The same decisionyou’ll need to realize everyday Get up. It’s what gets someone to writeletter after word after letter. Looking for a activity because theyknow all they need is a start.It’s what causes someone tokeep moving straight forward even when the start of their journeyshould have smacked them off track. Resilience and gumption these aren’t moderately messages. They mean something much moreto those who know them well. These messages have scars, they connote the duel but “its also” the gatewayto something so special. It’s what it means to lose 8 referendums, be in bed for 6 monthsafter a nervous breakdown, then to get up and do what it takesto enter the books of history.It is the power behindgetting accepted 12 occasions before demolish almost every recordand every ceiling imaginable. Resilience. That’s the word leftwhen the blizzards keep working, when things disappear from bad to worse, every reason to stop trying. The time we all gethumbled by at some time, sometimes more than formerly. There was still goes for dreams and sometimes there is onlytime for the reality of now. Picking up one foot, then the other. Starting to move forward step by step. Tears and foiling, a further step. Hurt and sadness, a further step. Shaking off what was, you really keep going. It’s the light that lastly breaksafter the darkest of lights. In the moment that are important You .. and a reflect same decision everyday.Knowing it’s going to be long, knowing there’s no other direction. That .. is .. resilience. The rigours of academic life-time can be brutal. Long daylights of grades, long nights of studying, and low-grade cash flow requires you to be frugal. Campaign, bag studies, pop quizzes and final exams will measure your lessons and your scruples. But you save propagandizing and pushing because you know one day all of that hard work and studying will pay off and be beneficial. You’ve seen many otherssuccumb to academic demise and wind up with the wrongletter on their record. The dreaded W which dreadfully stands for withdrawal. But that’s where you draw the line because you’ve made a vowto choose incline over descend, fast forward over rewind, redesign over recline and hard grind over pout and complain. You drew the choice to mine penetrating within.And thus the only W you will ever get will be the W that stands for WIN. Because champions looks just like you pickthemselves up when they stumble and slip. Wins like you understandthat it is impossible to never trip. Champions like you arestrong enough to say no when their friendswant them to take a sip. Winners looks just like you cartel the process so steps they never ever try and skip. And that chipping on your shoulder it remains to remind you of allthe doubters, nay-sayers, and haters. They said you would never walkacross that stage and receive the working paper but more fuel for your barrage merely manufactures success so much greater. Because you overcomingthe sour taste of now to get to the sweet taste of later.You adjust to allthe different personalities of your teachers and profs and experience those that are super cool but stand mentally preparedfor those that are stressors. Bless seem to find you because the universe plots to make sure everything falls into place. Because you’ve got so muchheart, fervour and longing. Your fire impedes burning but at times it starts to fizzle but you rememberyou owe it to your future self and that gas turnsthat fizzle into a sizzle. You want to leave a legacy and contribute to the greater good. So, for now is the uncomfortable discipline and sacrifice. Because the cash out in the future means today you got to pay the price. So that represents when yourfriends ask “Can you go? ” Your heart wants to say yes but your willpower says no.Because Mr. Jones’ Thermo-Chemistry 3202 ain’t no joke. And so, you gotta belocked in and remain rouse because he’s all about business and doesn’t give any lasso. So, if you miss anyassignments or flunk any research you have very little hopeof progressing his class. But you will pass his class and you will pass with flying colors. Because you, your best friend, are an academic hustler. And thus you put in the time, their own efforts and ask all the right questions tomake sure all of your foundations are covered. The vultures will detest. You tried to give them vision but they never put on the right enclose. And thus their display was blurryand their evaluate indicated it. And now they want to throw shade at you but your shield avoided it. You said about winning in progress over here so please eliminate the negative vibe. It’s time to remove them from your curve and find yourself a positive tribe.Because affliction kindness companionship but that misery cannot haveany of your intimacy because everybodyon your unit is working as a legion to come back and triumph the championship. You owe it to your future self to make money movesin and out of the classroom. Because time waits for no one. And whether you succeed or neglect, it will pass soon. So, respect your personal symbol and make sure your daily advertisementrepresents who you want to be.Walk with person and integrity so your thinking in the reflect is who you want to see. Your future selfis counting on your current self to set the flavor and make sureyour future is not only luminou but powerful and strong for mediocrity. Your future self is countingon your current self to never take shortcutsand never shortfall integrity. Because the day will come for you to walk withcharacter and have clarity. Greatness is your destiny. But at times you mustreboot your mental computer Because each step you take today will instantly change … your future. Your future self is countingon your current self to give every ounce of your being, every ounce of your mind to make sure you tap into your offering. This is a great day to WIN ..