#1 LIFE HACK for Motivation & Happiness | A Gary Vaynerchuk Original

– Are you scared to do it because your mothers won’t like it? – No, my mothers actually funding me– – Okay, so what areyou afraid of, disappointing? – Not failing … but … Still being at the same place, when your best friend are at the next grade. – Huge mistake. You don’t want the samethings your friends miss. So why the fuck do youcare what they have? The biggest ground people are happy right now, is’ cause they valuesomebody else’s opinion more than they quality their own.Have those discussions with the person that’s holding you back. The rationale most people whoare listening right now are not make that thing, is they’re worried aboutthe opinion of somebody.( resonating) I am so devastated that you actually let your grandma’s point of view, your mama, your father, yousister, your aunt … You still give somebody else dictate based on their opinion. Every action you do, and it’s your life.( clock clicking) The rationale I’m super joyful, is nobody can tell me nothin ‘. My wife, mama, and daughter, could walk into my room right now, tell me I’m a piece of drivel, and I would be 100% un-phased. That is some gangster feeling structure. If you’re not feelin’it, find new friends. I’m being dead serious about this. This one is real big for me. The only behavior I’ve seen , now that I’m older, thatyou can build confidence, is if you surround yourself with people who are optimistic.Start trimming your friend group, and start adding to your friend group, predicated, on what you wanna be. Like, it’s unbelievablewhat happened to me when I got into the Silicon Valley world, and started rally like, Mark Zuckerberg, and like, Ed Williams and– like, Travis– like, it changed my life. Everybody in this room, needs to cut out as much of the interference, and epoch of beings that are negative, and devote as much time withpeople that are positive. The parties you spend time with are the ones that mandate your mindset.- Yeah. – You could restraint your time with your momma. You could restriction your timewith your best friend. You could tell your girlfriend, or husband to go fuck themselves. – Yeah. – You fuckin’ roll up with your pa, your mama, your sister, and say fuck off, I’m out, because you’re a fuckin’ poison, and I’ll see you in six years old, if you figure out why the fucking I left. You’re bear to bein that relationship. If you feel motivatedby this conversation, or you’re intrigued by it, add one brand-new champion friend. Like, you know what I mean? Add one new win friend, and cut one loser friend. – I feel like even when I render it away, and I don’t speak to them, the clatter of them– – That means you– That means you value their ruling. – Yeah. – I don’t. – Yup. – Please, cause this bethe video that teaches through your manager, thatyour life is predicated on when you get real quiet, and you can’t hear anotherfuckin’ person’s two pennies that got nothing to do with you, and everything to do withwhere they are in life.Are you really gonna give those eight or ninepeople prescribe your life?’ Cause you are so fearfulof judgment from others that at the end of the day when you’re 87, you will not give a shit about ..

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