#1 LIFE HACK for Motivation & Happiness | A Gary Vaynerchuk Original

– Are you scared to do it because your mothers won’t like it? – No, my mothers actually reinforce me– – Okay, so what areyou so scared of, flunking? – Not neglecting … but … Still being at the same place, when my friends are at the next tier. – Huge mistake. You don’t want the samethings your friends crave. So why the fucking do youcare what they have? The biggest conclude beings are hapless right now, is’ cause they valuesomebody else’s opinion more than they evaluate their own. Have the conversation with the person that’s holding you back. The intellect most people whoare listening right now are not doing that thing, is they’re worried aboutthe opinion of somebody .( repetition) I am so devastated that you actually let your grandma’s point of view, your momma, your papa, yousister, your aunt … You still give somebody else dictate based on their opinion. Every action you do, and it’s your life.( clock clicking) The reasonablenes I’m super joyou, is nobody can tell me nothin ‘. My wife, mommy, and daughter, could walk into my area right now, tell me I’m a piece of bullshit, and I would be 100% un-phased. That is some gangster emotional structure. If you’re not feelin’it, find new friends. I’m being dead serious about this. This one is real big for me. The only highway I’ve seen , now that I’m older, thatyou can build confidence, is if you surround yourself with people who are optimistic. Start trimming your friend group, and start adding to your friend group, predicated, on what you wanna be.Like, it’s unbelievablewhat happened to me when I got into the Silicon Valley world, and started fill like, Mark Zuckerberg, and like, Ed Williams and– like, Travis– like, it changed my life. Everybody in this room, needs to cut out as much of the noise, and duration of parties that are negative, and deplete as much time withpeople that are positive. The people you spend time with are the ones that mandate your mindset. – Yeah. – You could limit your time with your mom. You could restraint your timewith your best friend. You could tell your lover, or husband to go fuck themselves. – Yeah. – You fuckin’ roll up with your papa, your mommy, your sister, and say fuck off, I’m out, because you’re a fuckin’ viru, and I’ll see you in six years, if you figure out why the fucking I left.You’re acquiring to bein that relationship. If you feel motivatedby this conversation, or you’re intrigued by it, add one new champion friend. Like, you know what I necessitate? Add one new winner friend, and cut one loser friend. – I feel like even when I leave it apart, and I don’t speak to them, the yak of them– – That means you– That means you value their opinion.- Yeah. – I don’t. – Yup. – Please, give this bethe video that teaches through your psyche, thatyour life is predicated on when you get real quiet, and you can’t hear anotherfuckin’ person’s two pennies that has nothing to do with you, and everything to do withwhere they are in life. Are you really gonna let those eight or ninepeople mandate your life?’ Cause you are so fearfulof judgment from others that at the end of the day when you’re 87, you will not give a fuck about.

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