How many of you decided to stop to dosomething because it was hard? Raise your hands please. Like there was no excuse whatsoever for not getting at what it isthat you should be doing. We’re just so interestedin blaming everybody else and justifies because we don’t want totake on responsibility. So whenever something hurts you there are 2 alternatives You can either become wounded, or you can become wise.This is the choice As Einstein said, “Those that have never flunked have never tried” The reason most peopledon’t take action is simple it’s fear. Fear of omission, anxiety of success. Perfection equals paralysis In my experience, things almost never vanish perfectly even though they are you want them to stuff goes wrong, that’s just live. When everything seemsto be going against you remember that the airplanetakes off against high winds not with it. And formerly you learnby precipitating on your face, that’s how you learn. You learn by tryingto create a light bulb. Over … and over … and over again. If at first, you disappoint then try, try again When a child’s learning howto walk, it falls down 50 periods it never stops thinking to itself … “This isn’t for me” We all fail.It’s okay. What is not okay is … that when you disappoint, you stay down. It only took 1 mistaketo turn your entirety soul inside out. It merely makes 1 good test to see what you were do wrong. Because failure is just testing. It’s gory hard to be a high performance being. Troubles are always the performance indicators that you are making progress. So many of you in here are comfortable and you think merely because you’recomfortable you’re being successful. I don’t ever definitely sounds like I losebecause I won’t give up. Even if I lose, I’ll do it again. The leveraging is in beingaccountable for everything.The leverage is uncovering your helplessness. We either win or we learn. You never look at thatas a lack or a loss You look at it asan opportunity to learn. There’s nothing wrong with becoming mistakes and so what can I learn from this? Now, you’re leveragingthis problem to grow. Don’t jettison the towel in so fast. Many beings give up on the 1 yard cable. Whether you’re, you are familiar with, 9, 12, 16, 21, 22, 24 if you miscarry, it doesn’t matter.Your lack is irrelevant. There’s not one of you that weren’tdestined to become successful “youve had” dreams and you have goals. And I promise you , nobody can stop you. I don’t think confidence is somethingthat you were born with it’s a skills and abilities. And I had no confidence. So confidence is somethingI taught myself over its first year. I started becoming okay with who I am. I became the best version of me. And then, I sort of said, I’m okay.You know, I’m alright.Even if someone elsethinks this, I’m okay. And everyone can do that. Beings time don’t realize it. So, it spawned me understand that confidence genuinely is the keyto getting ahead in life. If you believe in yourself, the world will believe in you. Because perception is reality. As soon as I started doingeverything that I adoration there was a surge of strength, a flood of confidence, I wasn’t insecure anymore.Because the emotion that had the most dominancein my thought process was actually being paid attention to. I … I’m really sick of being insecure. I feel I’m enoughand I believe that everything I have that I need for life to makeall my dreams come true I know it’s already inside of me. It’s who you areand being cozy with who you are that influences other people to say, “Oh, Okay.Maybe I could do that.” You can’t wait for predestination. No one can do that, you can’t be like, “Oh! Destiny’s going toknock at my entrance one day.” No, it won’t. You have to be able torecognize opportunities because there’ll be a lot ofthem that come into your life. And once you’ve recognized job opportunities, you have to seize the day and use cruel hard-bitten because there’ll be 25 otherpeople who’ll want to do it.If failure was not on the table do you “ve realized that” 87% of people allow the fear of failure to outweigh their desire to succeed. Failure is required. Success is optional. Successful people flunk a lot. They disappoint a whole lot morethan they superseded. I proceeded all in. I moved my move beforeI was ready, I took a risk. It didn’t pay off the highway I wanted it to but I learned. You don’t lose if you learn. Failure is destined to happen. At some place, you will fail why? Because you’re not good at everything. You can learn so much better, if not more … from your lacks, your non-starts, your reluctances as you can from your success. You’ve got a lot going for you, a lot more than you think. If you’re framing your life as a failure and framing their own lives as a disappointment you will continue to see only failure in their own lives. It’s up to you how you bounce back from those collapses. I’ve seen a lot ofincredible beings stopped…By an unwillingness to let go ofa past that doesn’t help them. No withdraw No renounce You know they say life is9 0% of what happens and the other 10% is how you respond to it. It’s possible. I can do this.I can make this happen. No topic how bad it is or how bad it gets I’m going to make it. I say it’s time for youto turn your life around. I say it’s time for you to get backup because living merely knocked you down. I say it’s time for you to swimbecause you’re about to drown. Congratulations. You’ve survived 100% of the most serious times of their own lives. If in that moment, regardlessof your worldly success, you feel good about who you are. You feel good about what you’ve done and how you’ve touchedother people’s lives.You feel better about what you’restriving for and trying to accomplish. You feel better that inthe times when it get hard it didn’t matter to youyou pushed through That matters. So, in other words your likelihood of being successful is determined by how well you canbounce back from those omissions. He was homeless for three weeks. Living in a New Jersey Bus Station. He likewise was so broke at one point, that when he was writing the movie “Rocky” his electricity was turned off and he was forced tosell his puppy for 25 bucks just to get the illuminates turned back on.Then, later on he wasrejected by talent scouts over 1500 days. Probably, most famousfor his work in “Rocky”. Sylvester Stallone She was once told that she didn’thave the face for video. “Your exclusively shot to make itin this TV industry was to be behind the camera, not in front of it.” Forbes mentioned that in 2004, she returned away 276 vehicles to membership of her audience. She eventually paved the course for many of ourother beloved talk-show emcees. Now, she has her own system. A specify that accompanies smilesto parties all regions of the world. He caused theme parks.With the stature of being”The Happiest Place on Earth”. His ballparks are created withcreativity and ingenuity from the very secondyou enter into their gates. Long before he became known asthe inventor of this magical residence, he was fired from the newspaperthat he once labor at. They shot him because his bosssaid, he shortcoming imagination. Walt Disney An American Film-maker. He is considered one ofthe Founding Pioneers of the new Hollywood Era. And one of the most popularDirectors and Producers in Film history. He aimed “Jurassic Park”. It made almost 939 million dollars. But what you might not know, is that he got rejectedfrom film school 3 times. The film school that accepted him later offered him an Honorary Degree and hired him to becomeTrustee of the School. Steven Spielberg He is an actor, a comedian, impressionist, Screenwriter, a musician, producer, and even a painter.But growing up was a different story. He was terribly good, even at persons below the age of 15, he worked as a custodian to help his family pay the bills. And to hear his first performanceat a comedy sorority, he was booed off theatre. Now you can’t go anywhere in the worldwithout someone knowing exactly who Jim Carrey is. Lack is not a bad thing it is a stepping stone toyour next elevation of greatness. Flop promotes youropportunity for success. It is a pre-requisite for success How bad do you want to succeed? The better question is how much are you willing to fail? Never let yourself be the main victims. If I could go back in time, and have a conversationwith my 8 to 10 year old-fashioned ego, oh the sense I would give.Because when you thinkabout it, you’re a kid things don’t go your course, what do you do? You cry, you sob, you throw a fit, you miss your parentsto feel sorry for you, you feel sorry for yourself. It’s how, how you dealwith things at that senility. And then you grow up but you don’t undoubtedly shed that dres, that mentality.And it becomes obvious, right? I entail, you can talkto someone for 30 seconds and you know right away if they have that prey attitude, the world falling down, they’re tired, they have so much to do, they’re so hectic, X-Y-Z. Look, having that mindset, does 2 things for you. One, it meets you comeacross helpless and weak. And no one wants to come across that action. Two, it does not get youto where you’re going, it does not change the situation.Right? Here is the reality. There is alwaysa way to get what you want. There is always a wayto post yourself, to move away from what you don’t want. You can quite literally becomewhat you want to become but you cannot look at life like it’s this difficulty, like it’s against you. The ball is in your court. You know, it wasn’t thatlong ago, 2 – three years ago, that I was not the happiestguy in the world. Right? Did not like what I was doing, did not like how I was depleting my season, was not energized, was not passionate about very much. But the time camewhere I didn’t want to live like that.I had a conversation with myself, I stopped being the main victims, I stopped deploring, and I requested myself, “dude, what is it you people want? What is your purpose? What is your goal? Who do you want to become? ” And I literally realise the decisionand walked away a different person. And the things around mechanged, “peoples lives” changed because I made a decisionto never be the main victims again, to get what I want.I became the author of my own floor. And you realise just how simple it isto transform your situation. Not easy, right? And it takes time. But there’s always a wayto do from detail A to stage B. And this separates the worldinto 2 various kinds of parties. People who look at how things are, who accept reality as truth, who complain. And people who look at what can be, who make the most of any situation, look at life as if it’s clay to be molded, to be shaped.It seems funny to meknowing what I do now that I went through any of my lifelike a hamster on a rotate that I talked to beings everydaywho didn’t invigorate me that I didn’t want to be around, that I did thingsI wasn’t passionate about. That is manium. Because if you don’t like something, but you do nothing to change it, what’s left for you to do? Complain, squeak, stay where you are, that’s it. See, one of the reasonsI reference athletics so much is because they bringthis attitude on you. That when things been difficult, when things become challenging your work, your one jobis to find a way to figure it out. And I always did, and I made that and I made itto everything else I do. And now it is eye opening to see people achievingsuccess, financial free, these things everyone wants.And know that the differencebetween them and everyone else is that they felt like they deserved it. A slew of the time theyweren’t smarter, stronger they weren’t more gifted to begin but they moved toward what they missed. They didn’t cry or groanabout the problems, they didn’t look for sympathy. Those at the top ofthe mountain are not martyrs. They will never make themselves be victims. It’s about the other side, the opportunity. Getting from where you are to what you want. The- the first step is belief, right? People think that beliefcomes once you’ve done it. You won’t even make the first step if you don’t believeyou can accomplish it. So, we produce with belief as a category. So, you have to finda way to believe in it to move so your mommy is giving youan awesome challenge.Can you believe in the faceof her fear, right? And to me, when people doubt me, it’s a gift. I love thatbecause I believe in beauty and violence and there is a requirement to both. I need people to desire me, I need to want beautiful thingsfor myself and for others, I want to create something astonishing, I want to help a lot of people.I too want to prove a lot of beings wrong who don’t think that I can do this. I just wanted to subdue the enemies that want to see me disappoint, that want to do anythingthey can to ensure that I disappoint. I expend 80% of my time now, and 20% of my day now. And the mockery is as Darth Vader will tell you there’s power on the dark side. And once you learn to symmetry those then you really get something interesting. And here’s another way to say it You have to know when to love yourself, and know when to detest yourself. I think it’s 80/20 again. You want to spend 80% of the time loving youand being proud of who you are no matter where you are , no matter what part ofyour jaunt you’re in.Really affection that you’reshowing up, that you’re playing, perhaps you’re not yet satisfiedwith the level you’re playing at. But no worries, like you’re there, you’re doing it, you’re demonstration up. And then 20% of the time beingwildly disappointed by yourself, being frightened by the factthat you were so lazy and so afraid of being coldthat you wouldn’t get out of bed. Like that’s terrifyingand that is not acceptable That’s not a person that you’reprepared to continue to be and that you simply find thatso disgusting in yourself that you’re going to makean immediate modification. And if you don’t do that, you’ll never grow.You’ll waste all your timeover here, you’ll be conciliated. Talk about being mollified by the dreammerely having the dream. I want to do good things for people – have you heard a lot of people say that? – yeah Yeah, people say that all day “I want to do great thingsI want to help the world.” In what highway? Like they don’t get specific, so they appeased by the dream. So, you’ve got this person who isreally not living up to their potential being soothed by the vision of whatthey can do and who they could become but they never to your earlier site, they never find the path to execution. So, I find, withoutkicking myself in the backside without being deeplydissatisfied with myself 20% of the time because if it’s more than 20% ofthe time you begin to erode yourself and it gets terribly astringent. You’ll chip away at your ownself-esteem and that’s a total waste.But you do have to bewilling to kick your butt See, I recognized earlier today in animation that life isn’t just about the decisions that we construct. You know what I’m saying? If you don’t become whoyou’re supposed to become parties die now. That’s deep.Now “ve been thinking about” it. If you don’t become whoyou’re supposed to become, like parties going to hurt. Like if I don’t hitthe reset button in life, Who knows where Brianwould be right now? Who knows where the team would be? Like There’s something inside you. And so, this is why we do what we do. Because I don’t know if Like, all y’all are probablyfeeling the presentation but how many of you are reallygoing to apply what we gave you? It “couldve been” 10%, it could be 40%, I don’t know.But what took place todaycould shift your life forever because you’ve got a brain. So when you find yourself down and out, you go think about man, If Jill was in her gondola, homelessand pregnant and she got through it That girl has sang in Africa and beento Ecuador and all over the globe. If she could do it, you know now you could do it. And some of you got somehomeboys you combined with but you know they aren’t really livinghow you are supposed to be living and they lead you down the wrongway, you know from Brian’s story.Yo, if I remove myself from it, if I plug in with positive people I can make it. Listen, I miss for youwhat we’re experiencing. One of my homeboys was like, “J, you gotta take it easy. You require everybody toexperience a great life like you”. I’m like “bro, why not? I’m trying to triumph. I miss “youre going to” win.” I went through too much pain. When Tony was sharingwhat she was sharing Jill, both of them went are dealing with people takingadvantage of them when they were little. Listen to me somebody. I know you’re suffering. I know you’re hurting onthe inside, you wonder why? Like why this got to happen to me? Why I gotta know-how this? Why this person had totake advantage of me? I promise you, you are turning into a warrior. Because the stuff thatyou’re going through, the stuff that you have to experience, What don’t kill you stimulates you stronger. If you look at the catthat goes to the gym and he’s lifting weightsand he’s pumping iron.If “youre asking” homeboy “Hey bro, howdid you get so big-hearted? ” They will tell you. “It made a whole lot of epoch and I hadto go through a whole lot of pain.” And life is going to grow you. Listen to me right now, life is going to grow you. It is not going to be easy, it is going to be agonizing, it is going to be frustrating. You’re going to shed some cries, you’re probably going to spill some blood. It’s going to hurtbut you’ve gotta restrain propagandizing. You know when there’snothing turn left to do but to fight with everything you’ve got to get back up there’s a word for it Resilience.And that term comesdown to such a simple test. Not much involved. But in the moments that matter most it’s everything. You and a reflect looking into your own eyes and realizingthere’s nowhere else to go but up, and being ready for what that makes. It’s a single decision. The same decisionyou’ll need to construct everyday Get up. It’s what gets someone to writeletter after character after character. Looking for a position because theyknow all they need is a start. It’s what causes someone tokeep moving straight forward even when the start of their journeyshould have slapped them off track. Resilience and tenacity these aren’t pretty names. They mean something much moreto those who know them well. These statements have disfigures, they symbolize the duel but “its also” the gatewayto something so special. It’s what it means to lose 8 ballots, are still in bunked for 6 monthsafter a nervous breakdown, then to get up and do what it takesto enter the books of autobiography. It is the power behindgetting repudiated 12 seasons before break almost every recordand every ceiling imaginable.Resilience. That’s the word leftwhen the gusts keep coming, when things go from bad to worse, every reason to stop trying. The instant we all gethumbled by at some spot, sometimes more than formerly. There are eras for dreams and sometimes there is onlytime for the reality of now. Picking up one foot, then the other. Starting to move forward step by step. Tears and resentment, another step. Hurt and sadness, another step. Shaking off what was, you simply keep going. It’s the light-headed that finally breaksafter the darkest of lights. In the moment that are important You .. and a mirror same decision everyday. Knowing it’s going to be long, knowing there’s no other lane. That .. is .. resilience. The rigours of academic being can be brutal. Long daytimes of castes, long nights of studying, and low-pitched cash flow requires you to be frugal. Job, bag studies, pop quizzes and final exams will research your ethics and your scruples.But you save propagandizing and propagandizing because you know one day all of that hard work and studying will pay off and be fruitful. You’ve seen many otherssuccumb to academic downfall and wind up with the wrongletter on their record. The dreaded W which dreadfully stands for withdrawal. But that’s where you draw the line because you’ve made a vowto choose incline over slump, fast forward over rewind, redesign over recline and hard grind over pout and grumble. You spawned the choice to dig late within. And thus the only W you will ever get will be the W that stands for WIN.Because champions like you pickthemselves up when they stumble and slip. Champions like you understandthat it is impossible to never jaunt. Winners like you arestrong enough to say no when their friendswant them to take a sip. Winners like you cartel the process so steps they never ever try and skip. And that chip on your shoulder it remains to remind you of allthe doubters, nay-sayers, and haters. They said you would never walkacross that theatre and receive that paper but more fuel for your fervour only makes success so much greater.Because you overcomingthe sour preference of now to get to the sweet taste of later. You adjust to allthe different personalities of your both teachers and professors and experience those that are super cool but keep mentally preparedfor those that are stressors. Blessings seem to find you because the universe plots to make sure everything falls into place. Because you’ve got so muchheart, anger and longing. Your fire hinders burning but at times it starts to fizzle but you rememberyou owe it to your future self and that gas turnsthat fizzle into a sizzle. You want to leave a legacy and contribute to the greater good. So, for now is the uncomfortable discipline and sacrifice.Because the cash out in the future means today you got to pay the price. So that represents when yourfriends expect “Can you go? ” Your heart wants to say yes but your firmnes says no. Because Mr. Jones’ Thermo-Chemistry 3202 ain’t no joke. And so, you gotta belocked in and keep rouse because he’s all about business and doesn’t give any rope. So, if you miss anyassignments or fail any research you have very little hopeof surpassing his class. But you will pass his class and you will pass with flying colors. Because you, my friend, are an academic hustler. And thus you put in the time, international efforts and ask all the right questions tomake sure all of your cornerstones are covered.The vultures will hate. You tried to give them vision but they never put on the right enclose. And thus their vision was blurryand their gradation manifested it. And now they want to throw shade at you but your shield deflected it. You said about prevailing in progress over here so satisfy eliminate the negative vibe. It’s time to remove them from your circle and find yourself a positive tribe. Because misery enjoys busines but that misery cannot haveany of your friendship because everybodyon your team is working as a contingent to come back and triumph the championship. You owe it to your future self to make money movesin and out of the classroom. Because time waits for no one. And whether you succeed or flunk, it will pass soon. So, respect your personal symbol and make sure your daily advertisementrepresents who you want to be.Walk with reputation and stability so your thought in the reflect is who you so wishes. Your future selfis counting on your current self to set the tone and make sureyour future is not only bright but powerful and strong for mediocrity. Your future self is countingon your current self to never take shortcutsand never shortfall integrity. Because the day will come for you to walk withcharacter and have purity. Greatness is your destiny. But at times you mustreboot your mental computer Because each step you take today will immediately affect … future developments. Your future self is countingon your current self to give every ounce of your being, every ounce of your feeling to make sure you tap into your offering. This is a great day to WIN ..